First of all, id love to thank God for opening this door for me, to reach millions and millions of people and hopefully, this site will make a difference in your life. To Thandile Zonke,you are such a great inspiration to me and u have made me realise that the word "impossible" does not apply in my vocabulary anymore...And to my friends to mention a few Dudu Matumbu, Kholeka Cindi,Amaza Ntshanga, Thula Simelane, Tebogo Mahlaela, Mmathapelo, ....guys thank you so much, without your support and your love, i would not be where i am today, you are such a blessing in my life. To mommy dearest, enkosi Mtshezikazi...i love you so much.
"REALITY"
"Facing Reality" is not an easy thing to do. I sat down and thought about all the difficulties and challenges faced by people or should i say physically challenged people to be precise. If you are physically challenged or have a disability of some sort, you'll know what im talking about. Having to admitt u are physically challenged is not an easy thing to do. Having to bear all those questioning eyes or rather mixed looks given by people who, if im right are having what i call "mind battle" of what is the cause of your disability or feeling pitty for u....i feel its about time we stand up and myk our voice be heard.
WHERE DOES IT ALL START??
It all starts by accepting the fact that you have a challenge of some sort/ of a kind.. accept yourself fully, be known for who you are and what you are capable and not capable of doing. Come out of that "nut shell", face the world and socialize with people, whether they accept you or not, just know you are a fighter, a survivor bercause they dont know or rather not aware of what you went through during your childhood to be who you are today.
I am pleading to everybody, physically challenged or not, you are more than welcome to join me and discuss the everyday challenges faced by physically challenged people and what you want to know about them. Stop feeling sorry/pitty for them coz its killing them.Fun is the name of the game. So have fun....
FEEL FREE TO VOICE YOUR OPINION....it could save lives....
Remember "DONT DIS- MY ABILITY"
Much love
Thandile Kondilathi
About Me
- Thandile (babyt) kondilathi
- Loving, caring, down to earth, very friendly, out-spoken, stick to my principles and a woman of my words... fun to be around with....
7 comments:
What an interesting topic we have here....wow and its about time people come out of their nut shells and face the world and its ups and downs....big ups T.....
After reading this said to myself...wow. After seeing how young you are, I was like WOW...great, excellently researched and written article.
Bigups my friend!:-)
Hey Simphiwe!! thank u so much fwend hey, it was not even researched or wat, i was actually doin my school work when i felt the need to do this. To be quite honest with u, i have been a victim of self pitty, i allowed people to feel sorry for me not realizing that, that alone was killing me. So i feel its about time i help those who are still undergoing the same "rough patch" as i did.. If i managed to go through it, so can u. This site is mainly designed to make people pour their hearts out, its about helping each other, its all about the love for our brothers and sisters who are their own enemies.....
hey sana..great blog,its fresh 2 def plus it will get ppl talking..there are so many things im still gonna share wit evryone here..u knw my life, love, success and the most important recipe of all times..never let anyone make you feel as though ur nothing..make them see that you too are able to stand up 4yoself and actually stronger than they presume...trust me its a fact that "it hurts when it heals" but it does eventually and you will be suprised at what u capable of as a human being...no let me rephrase that..as a young woman!!! in essence it does get better in time...like leona lewis says...congratulations my frnd this is big U CAN ONLY MOVE HIGHER FROM THIS LEVEL...SIYABANGENA!!! guys keep it locked to 90.7 evry saturdays from 10 till 13hoo..l8er girl..
Hey Dudu, thanx sweety, thanx ma love. and trust me it surely does hurt when it heals...its about time we face the world, approach ama daily circumstances with a positive heart.
Want a tip???
Just put on that smile, wear that bullet proof(confidence) with a positive attitude....then face your Goliath. No one is gonna fyt ur battles, u r ur own queen and king....Cummon face up that storm...u can do it....
One heart, one love, one Spirit....its soooo onnnn,
Siyabangena....
Bless ya'all
It was n Feb 2006 when I came across a young woman in school uniform, she immediately gv me a lesson on hw 2 spell her name correctly. Frm my meetings with her sh quickly made me aware of who she is, what shs abt and where shs going - nd 4 U who never had th previlage of meeting her n persn, BabyT WALK THE WALK & TALK THE TALK...
She stands by her word, no push over with a soft spot for kids the needy... Aftr yrs & yrs of studying and reading on personal development I found myslf learning 4rm a 'school girl' nd from tht day I knew that as people 'we all have something to learn from each other and vice versa'... Follow this young woman nd smething is abt to happen in ur life.
What I like abt U BabyT is tht U r nt this Self-Righteous, Fame Seeking Ms Know-It-All bt you approach things and even ths blog from the angle that say 'Let us come togethr, share xpiriences, learn from ea other and grow together..
Am humbld by the fact that U acknowldg God's Mighty & Will in ur endeavors & your desire to make a difference in smbody else's life.
These r timeless principles. If U r drivn by these principles and othrs I have nt noted nothing will stop U...
Lastly, I am nt your publist bt I'm proud of who U r, who U hv become and who U promise 2 be... nd I wil be one of the 1st people 2tell U if U shift your focus...
Your Proud Brother
B
BabyT and ur Friendz I leave U with this...
"Success has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It is what you do for others that really matters" - Danny Thomas
Satisfaction lies in the effort, not in the attainment. Full effort is full victory. ~ Mahatma Gandhi
“Keep Growing or Die” My Motto
Hey B!! thank u so much dear, i biliv u had a big inpact n my high school experience, wthout ama advices akho, i wudnt b wher i am 2day, i wudnt b able to face the world wth its ups nd downs the way im doin..i feel i owe it ol to u my friend. Ure a tru brother, a tru friend and a great inspiration to me.
"Success has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It is what you do for others that really matters" - Danny Thomas.
These words r so tru nd i promise to tie them n my neck lyk my necklace nd i want to myk a change n sumbody's life like neva b4. Together we can.
One spirit, one heart...
And i biliv that, if ure not part of the solution, ure part of the problem"....
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