ARE WOMEN DRAWN TO POWERFUL MEN?

Ok guys, tell mi if im wrong but here's wat ive discovered....
As much as men want beautiful women, Women also want a man who is well off with resources. When a man is just a regular Joe sitting at NewsCafe asking a woman out a lot of things will be taken into account before he even gets a "Hello". Now the same man 3 months later is now on Television or a hot singer (CELEB) the same women will be all over him before he can say "Hello" – It is sad but true power attracts women.

I promise you, Just a simple thang - observe at your team buildings how ladies are always trying to get close to the Managers and HODs, when the tequilas flow they throw themselves at them, why, because of power. I am not saying all women are like that but truth hurts, it's what we see all the time.

Money is like an aphrodisiac, Women are drawn to powerful men, men who can take care of their every need. Ladies most of the times men who have money are actually the most stingy people you will find, so don't get it twisted and think they'll just roll over and give you money or buy you a car. The drinks he's going to pay for at DROS is probably the only money you will see from his wallet. Babes, there is a big difference in appearing rich and being rich, driving a BMW 325 does not mean a man has money, it's probably 3 months behind on payments. There is a new phenomenon called: Di-TENDER…Iyooo…and let's be honest men who have tenders suddenly have an upper hand on women these days.

Gents, truth is, if you have the cash, the chances of you seeing action with the ladies increase. The days when women fell in love with guys who were cute are over, maybe when she was still 16 but now talk is cheap and money buys the whiskey.

What is scary is that girls in high school don't even want to date their classmates, they want a working man with the ability to buy them the basics: Airtime – Clothes – Streetwise 2 – It is sad but it is true and I know many don't want to hear it but a woman is not gonna date a guy who just gets by every month.

Gents, if a woman loves you and she's aware from the word go that you are broke …….She's WIFE material, marry her……..the one who always says bring Pizza or come pick me up at Primmi Bazala and when you get there you must settle her bill…..You're on your own, boet !!.

Ladies, if you want to know if a man is worth keeping and he is not just acting big, listen to what he talks about….if he keeps on saying I have ordered an M6 and my Mansion in Lonehill is almost finished….run…he's a loser.

Ladies look for the following in a man: CONFIDENCE – GENERO!!!
So, do u agree wth me noma cha? Then tell us ur story.....

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Who are you?

Ever came across such a question? One may refer to it as lame or rather a stupid thing to ask but have you discovered the "true" you? They claim they know you, they praise you, they criticise you but do they know who you realy are?
Its about time you be known for who u are and not what you are.

Ever felt like screaming, crying when hearing all sorts of bad things about you? Ever felt like digging a big deep whole just to hide youself, running away from all sorts of accusations about you? Its about time you put that mind set aside and be known for who you are, no one knows you better than youself. Is what we see a portrayal of your inner person....Is it who you realy are? YES/NO? THEN ....
WHO ARE YOU?

FACING REALITY

First of all, id love to thank God for opening this door for me, to reach millions and millions of people and hopefully, this site will make a difference in your life. To Thandile Zonke,you are such a great inspiration to me and u have made me realise that the word "impossible" does not apply in my vocabulary anymore...And to my friends to mention a few Dudu Matumbu, Kholeka Cindi,Amaza Ntshanga, Thula Simelane, Tebogo Mahlaela, Mmathapelo, ....guys thank you so much, without your support and your love, i would not be where i am today, you are such a blessing in my life. To mommy dearest, enkosi Mtshezikazi...i love you so much.

"REALITY"

"Facing Reality" is not an easy thing to do. I sat down and thought about all the difficulties and challenges faced by people or should i say physically challenged people to be precise. If you are physically challenged or have a disability of some sort, you'll know what im talking about. Having to admitt u are physically challenged is not an easy thing to do. Having to bear all those questioning eyes or rather mixed looks given by people who, if im right are having what i call "mind battle" of what is the cause of your disability or feeling pitty for u....i feel its about time we stand up and myk our voice be heard.

WHERE DOES IT ALL START??

It all starts by accepting the fact that you have a challenge of some sort/ of a kind.. accept yourself fully, be known for who you are and what you are capable and not capable of doing. Come out of that "nut shell", face the world and socialize with people, whether they accept you or not, just know you are a fighter, a survivor bercause they dont know or rather not aware of what you went through during your childhood to be who you are today.

I am pleading to everybody, physically challenged or not, you are more than welcome to join me and discuss the everyday challenges faced by physically challenged people and what you want to know about them. Stop feeling sorry/pitty for them coz its killing them.Fun is the name of the game. So have fun....
FEEL FREE TO VOICE YOUR OPINION....it could save lives....

Remember "DONT DIS- MY ABILITY"
Much love
Thandile Kondilathi