Ok guys, tell mi if im wrong but here's wat ive discovered....
As much as men want beautiful women, Women also want a man who is well off with resources. When a man is just a regular Joe sitting at NewsCafe asking a woman out a lot of things will be taken into account before he even gets a "Hello". Now the same man 3 months later is now on Television or a hot singer (CELEB) the same women will be all over him before he can say "Hello" – It is sad but true power attracts women.
I promise you, Just a simple thang - observe at your team buildings how ladies are always trying to get close to the Managers and HODs, when the tequilas flow they throw themselves at them, why, because of power. I am not saying all women are like that but truth hurts, it's what we see all the time.
Money is like an aphrodisiac, Women are drawn to powerful men, men who can take care of their every need. Ladies most of the times men who have money are actually the most stingy people you will find, so don't get it twisted and think they'll just roll over and give you money or buy you a car. The drinks he's going to pay for at DROS is probably the only money you will see from his wallet. Babes, there is a big difference in appearing rich and being rich, driving a BMW 325 does not mean a man has money, it's probably 3 months behind on payments. There is a new phenomenon called: Di-TENDER…Iyooo…and let's be honest men who have tenders suddenly have an upper hand on women these days.
Gents, truth is, if you have the cash, the chances of you seeing action with the ladies increase. The days when women fell in love with guys who were cute are over, maybe when she was still 16 but now talk is cheap and money buys the whiskey.
What is scary is that girls in high school don't even want to date their classmates, they want a working man with the ability to buy them the basics: Airtime – Clothes – Streetwise 2 – It is sad but it is true and I know many don't want to hear it but a woman is not gonna date a guy who just gets by every month.
Gents, if a woman loves you and she's aware from the word go that you are broke …….She's WIFE material, marry her……..the one who always says bring Pizza or come pick me up at Primmi Bazala and when you get there you must settle her bill…..You're on your own, boet !!.
Ladies, if you want to know if a man is worth keeping and he is not just acting big, listen to what he talks about….if he keeps on saying I have ordered an M6 and my Mansion in Lonehill is almost finished….run…he's a loser.
Ladies look for the following in a man: CONFIDENCE – GENERO!!!
So, do u agree wth me noma cha? Then tell us ur story.....
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Tjo tjo tjo, ya neh!!! but truth hurts sumtyms neh!!!! but one way or de ada we ol have to face it....
Thandi, this is one of your most excellent article so far. I see you improve your standard by the day.
You raised the most important point, in some areas I laughed. This is a topic that's tabooed by society.
I also loved the fact that you are not showing that you "know it all" or try to put forward your views.
Great article (7+)
Well everyone just need to live their life and be happy. life is short.
We need to stop minding something that just dont matter...
...bigups BabyT
Simphiwe, thank u so much bhuti, actually these things do afect us serious case, and many people r in da dark side of life. cheaters, vultures, jackals nd ol r out there hunting for their food, so if we dnt help each other realize how cruel the world is out there, we r ol gatta end up trapped in the same "closet"...So to avoid such things, we nid to open up our eyes nd minds and stop "sugar coating" these issues....Its about time "SOMETHING" be "SOMETHING" and not SUMTIN....(if u get wattam sayin)...ts about tym a spoon be a spoon....
Hi babes what are you looking for in a South African guy?I think gals who are looking for a guy who has got a bit of money & we are not talking millions here they let themselves to be used,don't you think?Tenders dish out some kind of money which put a smile on a face of poor "dick heads anyway".People who get this tenders some of them are fakes who don't know the job,some can't even deliver the services. Money does not go a long way but genuine love does babes!!!!! If I had money I would be with a person who would still be with me even if I didn't have money & I will still care for her needs the same way(777)999).Guys who got lucky to have a bit of money never forgets how hard they had to grind to get that money,so they wont be stupid spending that money ridicuosly. Those guys are the cocky bastards who don't give a shit about poor gals. If he want a bj/ a shag from a fit gal, he can get it for sweet R40 & a promise to buy you a nice top/jeans/shoes.....& so on.This becomes a relationship where he buys you airtime,clothes,blablabla,just for a shag.U know he must be very thick, he might just as well go to amassage palour for that service.The problem imzanzi is poverty, it has reduced the dignity of people, you know male & female & I think is getting worse!!!!!!!!!!!!
Iggy, u've myd a very clear point la my brother nd im so agreeing wth u ukuthi the problem la eMzansi is poverty..bt that dasnt mean we must say "yes" to atsoever that comes our way.It seems as if we as young ladies hav somehow lost our pride..seemingly money can even buy "life" now...
If i recall quite right, u asked mi a question if wat is it that im lookin 4 in a guy...wel to b quite honest wth u, some of us honesty, being presentable, respect, sense of appreciation, trust, and love is ol that matters or is ol that we r lookin 4 in a man. For him to have money or not, thats his own baby so long as he qualifies in the above mentioned requirements, thats "Amen".
My deepest or rather greatest fear is to depend n a person i've jes met wth. Thez no guarantee that, that person s yo life partner or wil owaiz b there 4u thru thick n thin, so mi depending n him then the nxt thing he "vanishes" jes like that, wats gona happen to mi?..so my advice is, being independant is a great idea 4me in da mean tym...but as ive said, we ol hav different views n the matter nd im so sure we've been tru diff situations that myt hav sumhow led us to depend n people.
So ya des my opinion, wats yoz!!! remember no one is perfect...we ol do mistakes but learning from them is the best thing to do....
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